My Journey through I.T. Job Loss - 5 Lessons Job Failure Taught Me! (English Subtitles)
My Journey through I.T. Job Loss - 5 Lessons Job Failure Taught Me! (English Subtitles)
My Journey through I.T. Job Loss - 5 Lessons Job Failure Taught Me!
(In Hindi - with English Subtitles)
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0:00 - My Job loss story
16:30 - 5 Lessons I Learned
Hello Friends,
It took me more than a year to finally manage to record this video, this is the first time I am sharing my biggest career failure so far in public. IAs this is a very personal and emotional incident, had to speak in my native language (Hindi) but I have added English subtitles for my global audience.
This was by far the most difficult video to record as it’s not easy to open up about your failures but I genuinely feel that if my story could help someone then all this pain was truly worth it.
In the end, I have shared 5 key life and career lessons I have learned from this career failure.
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0.133 -> Hello Friends,
hope you are doing well
1.618 -> First of all, I
would like to
3.1 -> really apologize
4.5 -> that
5.04 -> in this video
6.052 -> I will be speaking in
HINDI
8.15 -> because this is a very
personal video
10.035 -> I took almost 1 year to decide whether
I should be recording it at all or not
13.623 -> because
14.383 -> Obviously, you don't want to show
your vulnerabilities
17.13 -> It's difficult to show your weaknesses
19.103 -> or your failures
20.547 -> but I thought a lot
and I felt that
22.858 -> my story might help someone
25.16 -> who is
26.02 -> you know, who is about to loose a job
or who has already lost a job
30.04 -> So, Yes,
this is going to be a personal story
32.145 -> I don't know how long it will take
33.765 -> but really I would like to share
some lessons
36.65 -> which I have learned through this failure
38.163 -> I would definitely try to put subtitles
in this whole video
42.114 -> you could also get what I am saying
45.462 -> But
46.227 -> Please
47.187 -> in this video
48.167 -> let me speak in my
Mother Tongue
50.999 -> because
51.68 -> that's what I feel most
natural with
54.873 -> specially when I am sharing something
Very Personal
57.62 -> So Yeah,
Let's Start
58.947 -> So
59.986 -> friends
60.993 -> in this video
63.457 -> I would like to share that
the job lost I faced
68.396 -> The first job I got and
then the same turned into a Job loss
71.722 -> I would like to share that how that thing
happened and how I faced that time
75.414 -> because the freshers have a lots of
pressure for securing a Job
78.616 -> So, I would like to share the things
which I have learned from that journey
81.236 -> So
81.907 -> It all started in 2006, when I passed
my Engineering from Bhopal
85.867 -> Bhopal is the capital city of
MP (Madhya Pradesh) state
89.093 -> and
90.173 -> it was not a very reputed college
91.325 -> and also I was not so financially strong to
afford a high-profile college with huge fee
96.315 -> So I took admission in a
Computer Science batch in a normal college
100.829 -> but
102.239 -> the thing was that I didn't put enough
efforts in engineering,which I should have
106.419 -> so
106.815 -> my entrance exam didn't went well
108.963 -> plus the way I completed my engineering
was 'Just completing a degree type'
112.312 -> you know
113.468 -> However, I passed with first class
But
116.408 -> again
117.508 -> means
118.248 -> You already know how all engineers are
120.28 -> so
120.848 -> it went like that, so obviously I didn't
got the campus placement
123.406 -> and the college was new
124.282 -> and we were from othe places
so we didn't got any priority
127.982 -> So, I came to Pune
129.227 -> I had friends here and they asked me to
come to Pune and told we can get a job here
133.774 -> it was the area of strugglers
135.681 -> So I lived there
137.524 -> we were 6 people in a single room
139.39 -> we faced water seepage from walls
roof, water all over the room
141.722 -> but it was all fun as a struggler
143.67 -> we received a Marathi newspaper
'Sakaal Times' on daily basis
147.29 -> we used to read that and see pictures
148.775 -> because at that time we didn't had
smartphones, social media and all that
152.436 -> so we used to read that and gather
the latest news
154.57 -> dressed up neat and clean
early in the morning
156.953 -> packed up the files
and went on the streets
159.477 -> as we approached companies
160.335 -> sometimes we got a chance
and sometimes not
163.702 -> sometimes the security guard made us run
away by saying that your percentage is low
167.201 -> and you are not allowed inside
168.694 -> your 10th and 12th aggreagte should
be above 75%
171.65 -> sometimes we even corrected things
in the marksheets
174.942 -> so that, atleast we can get inside
177.339 -> can talk to them and give the interview,
attend the written exam
180.166 -> who knows
if this might end up in a selection
182.126 -> So all this went on & we tried 10-15 times
but no results were achieved
185.563 -> after all this, there is a phase
in every struggler's life
188.69 -> where they feel broken
and relaxed
189.95 -> where the think that is the
life we have to live
192.496 -> wake up in the morning
194.316 -> sit in a cafe, apply for a job
if you want to, use some Orkut
198.249 -> hangout and chitchat with friends
and then go to sleep
200.294 -> now all this turned out to be our
daily routine
202.188 -> but
202.882 -> one day when I was sleeping the room
205.107 -> I was habitual of sleeping late at night
and then waking up late in the morning
207.998 -> so one of my friends suddenly knocked
the door and said
210.291 -> that Anshul I got an information from
somewhere, that a big renowned company
214.365 -> is doing Walk-in interviews
Shall we go there?
216.698 -> I said that nothing happens brother
I am not going
219.65 -> he said let's just go and see what
is happening, it is not very far
222.821 -> so I said let's go
224.094 -> as we reached the place, we saw around
5k-6k people were already present
227.113 -> and it was such a huge crowd that police
forces were called to control them
230.08 -> so I told him that it is very difficult
to get a place here
232.282 -> It is not worth wasting hours in this
crowd, I am going back
235.076 -> I thing god was present with my friend
at that day,
238.165 -> I think he had the blessings of
Goddess Saraswati
242.592 -> he stopped me and I said okay
let's give it a try
246.544 -> and
247.424 -> I cleared it
248.431 -> I cleared the written
Two written exams were cleared
250.811 -> after that
251.958 -> I was very excited that
What is going on
253.802 -> I cleared the written then guess what
cleared the Interview too
256.238 -> there was a interview very next day
I cleared that too
258.614 -> so I didn't even got a hint but
I secured a Job in just 2 days
260.754 -> Suddenly, my name got famous
in the whole Strugglers area
263.647 -> because I was the first one
to crack the job
266.207 -> and, I was awarded with a handsome package
269.087 -> so I was also very happy for all this
270.636 -> but I was already told by many people
272.337 -> that the training of this particular
company, is going to be very tough
276.188 -> I said when I cleared all this, I will
clear the training too
278.861 -> saying this I went on
280.237 -> in the meantime, two of my
friends also arrived
282.91 -> they were also looking for a job
284.79 -> and obviously they were not earning
but I started making money
286.962 -> so they came and stayed with me
289.743 -> so like this we were a batch of
24 students
292.508 -> and the training of the whole
batch started
293.654 -> and the person who was assigned to provide
the training was a third party vendor
295.743 -> so his allignment to the company
was very clear
298.901 -> that boss, these are the rules
300.62 -> and based on these rules only,
you will pass or fail someone
305.373 -> so we went on this
306.411 -> it had a really tough level
of training
308.299 -> means
309.046 -> SQL, PLSQL, JAVA, J2EE
312.104 -> they were teaching
whatever you can think of
314.339 -> and in exam you will have to do the
coding
316.117 -> and in compilation
317.432 -> there are partial marks, means
319.739 -> if there is a compilation error
you get ZERO marks
322.069 -> if there is a runtime error
then..
324.282 -> no no.. it was not like that
I think it was like
326.682 -> If there is an error in the compilation
329.652 -> then there are Zero marks
331.203 -> but if the code gets compiled and there
is an error during the runtime
334.685 -> then you can get some marks.
That was the level
338.918 -> So I started studying
340.965 -> we don't bother in the starting,
after getting a new job
343.532 -> meeting new girls and boys,
chilling out
345.403 -> so we were on a different level
347.695 -> we went on the job, met with friends
enjoyed a lot, then came back home
351.327 -> and at home met those room partners
354.149 -> the room partners starts thinking that
the guy is making money so let's enjoy
356.355 -> let's eat food, share drinks
Obviously all this starts when you earn
359.608 -> so
360.75 -> I took it very lightly
361.869 -> To be very honest
362.609 -> I cleared the SQL, LINUX
365.403 -> after that when I started JAVA
I started struggling
370.152 -> I was struggling
371.759 -> I was managing but
373.159 -> I was not getting the marks
which I was supposed to get
375.61 -> Suddenly I started feeling all the pressure
377.302 -> all the other students were brilliant
378.83 -> means they were on another level
380.662 -> but people use to help me
but obviously I was struggling
383.891 -> still I didn't concentrated
385.199 -> but
385.972 -> Suddenly, I got a back in a paper
390.437 -> so we got one more attempt to pass the exam
392.283 -> from that point I started
feeling the pressure
395.078 -> even with all this, I studied
cleared those exams
396.838 -> I was doing
397.811 -> But
the problem was
399.885 -> that when I went to the
401.611 -> training institute
402.496 -> I studied a lot
403.514 -> but I was not getting the same
environment at the home
405.907 -> or I was not so sincere,
so I skipped the studies
408.86 -> whereas some of my friends use to
tell me, Anshul don't take it lightly
411.852 -> this is not the way,
you can also be fired
415.35 -> I never thought that this might happen
then the same thing happened
418.829 -> I gave the exam, and during the exam
I got to know that
421.541 -> the aggregate is too low and
it is the last exam of J2EE
425.741 -> so I worked hard and told
that I can crack this
429.59 -> so I went inside the room,
and the whole first row was empty
433.536 -> I don't know what was the occasion on that
day, and my trustful mind
436.646 -> told me that you have studied
let's sit on the first bench
439.619 -> so the students who sat at the back
discussed during the exam
441.97 -> but I was sitting in front, so I was
not able to ask or do anything
445.925 -> but I was assured that I will pass
447.764 -> as soon as I stood after giving the exam
450.391 -> I told my friends that
my J2EE exam will be cleared
453.937 -> so,suddenly the whole group of
my core friends was silent
459.377 -> they started seeing each others faces
then one guy came to me
462.377 -> took me to a side and told that Anshul
you have cleared this exam but
466.396 -> you are not following all your marks
468.596 -> so your aggregate is low
and your last paper also got you a back
472.658 -> I don't remeber what was that exam exactly
475.279 -> so, even if you pass this exam, then also
changes of getting your selection are less
479.279 -> and passing the training is difficult
480.679 -> suddenly, for one minute
my whole world stopped
484.926 -> I still remember, when he told me this
487.672 -> inreturn I just smiles
I didn't cry or broke apart
492.118 -> but I thought, what has happened
494.904 -> so he told that you go the room of
the Chief Invigilator and tell him
499.83 -> I went
501.117 -> and told him that this is what I have,
please take a look and help me in someway
504.829 -> I recently got a job after very hard work
and suddenly I got tears in my eyes
507.922 -> because obviously
509.846 -> this is your whole career,
got a job after so much hard work
514.005 -> so he told that, you are late
I could have given you one more chance
518.039 -> but now we have forwarded the marks
to the company
521.065 -> now you do one thing
523.031 -> when we will assign your batches
with different projects
526.023 -> at that time
527.871 -> we will assign you that
529.651 -> if they would like to consider you
531.516 -> So obviously when I got the hope
534.348 -> I went with all students who passed the
exam
537.346 -> and went to the company with them
542.202 -> now they are getting interviewed, assigned
with projects and no one was considering me
546.937 -> finally I gathered some strength and went
to the RMG, incharge of Resource Management
551.142 -> I asked him that what about me ?
I didn't got anything
554.182 -> he said tell me you name,
your employment id
556.616 -> so I told him. then he said that
558.952 -> why you came here?
you are not even passed
562.359 -> I said that I was told that
you will consider me
564.504 -> he said no, no we cannot
consider like this
567.806 -> we will consider your experience
and give you the experience letter
571.486 -> but we don't have projects for you
574.746 -> so I was again totally shocked that
what is happening with me
579.066 -> again I lost the hope
581.166 -> On that day I was totally frustrated
means I was totally broken that day
585.046 -> when I took a bus on that day
587.692 -> and when I reached home, so one of our
friend was throwing a party on that day
591.024 -> they called me to reach the Dhaba or
restaurant diretly from the office
594.748 -> they didn't knew what was going
through my life
596.362 -> I didn't even shared so much about my life
597.935 -> because all of them are already struggling
in their life to find a job
601.982 -> so I went straight to the Sai Baba Temple
603.949 -> I attended a Aarti in a temple on my way
607.315 -> at that point I got emotional
609.141 -> and
610.781 -> and then I reached home and told them
I am not feeling well and I need rest
616.041 -> after that I didn't to the office for
next 2-3 days
617.533 -> so people started asking why are you
not goint to the office, what happened
620.066 -> I told them that I am not feeling well
621.641 -> finally
622.346 -> after three days, I shared with one of
my closest friend that I lost the job
626.217 -> and I remember it was the time of Holi
628.716 -> everyone was happy to play
with colours
630.57 -> suddenly, the statement spreaded like fire
that Anshul
633.173 -> who went on the job
with full confidence
636.713 -> is now back with his back down
638.847 -> that I lost the job
641.105 -> I was so full of shame and guilt that
644.076 -> I stopped getting out of the room
645.554 -> when I went out I always thought
that everyone is watching me
648.361 -> whereas, this was not the case
649.729 -> but
650.949 -> as it happens when you fail
653.341 -> then you experience a guilt
656.621 -> like I am a failure and all that
659.03 -> So, when I lost the job, I got to know
that others are getting placed (new job)
663.881 -> infact, the money I made in those
2-3 months
666.231 -> was borrowed by others to start their
journey,
668.231 -> like someone got a job in Chennai
but didn't had the money, so he borrowed
671.008 -> I gave them money to travel, I helped many
of my friends
674.288 -> they were emotional as they thought when
we arrived he was the only one who had job
678.914 -> now when we are leaving, only he don't
have a job, else everyone have one
683.54 -> so finally
684.238 -> people told me to go home and....
686.705 -> I didn't informed anyone about this
at my home yet
689.084 -> I didn't told anyone at home that
this has happened
692.09 -> I don't have my father with me
693.584 -> so
694.584 -> my father passed away when
I was in class 12th
696.902 -> so, I only have my mother with me
698.25 -> and I have an elder sister but
she was married at that time
700.436 -> so
701.236 -> I thought why should I give this tension
to my mother
703.5 -> So, I went
705.48 -> after 15 days, I thought that I should go
Atleast I should get the experience letter
709.7 -> and the experience letter have all the
things, that you did the training and all
713.633 -> so
715.367 -> then I gained the inner strenhth
and went to the company
718.127 -> I had the tag of the company
719.756 -> that has to be returned to the company
721.543 -> So, I went and I was waiting
outside the cabin of the HR
725.105 -> to be honest
at that time I was back to normal
727.143 -> means I told myself that
I have to do something else
730.402 -> either do MBA or something, I was not clear
with this, but to do something different
734.549 -> I was sitting, there was a queue, because
HR addresses different types of issues
738.187 -> I was standing at the back, so the HR
asked me what is your query?
745.215 -> So I spoke up bluntly because
I was waiting from so long
748.415 -> and I wanted to just leave the place
750.074 -> I didn't wanted to spend a single moment
at that place
752.361 -> because it's like facing again that
pain which you have already felt
757.213 -> so I was standing there
I smiled and said
760.427 -> sir I was a part of the training
but I am not selected
764.629 -> so now,
766.355 -> I have been asked to leave
767.816 -> I have been asked
768.681 -> and he told me that I will
get the experience letter
771.168 -> so I am here for the final formalities
to get that
774.525 -> so the HR was a good person
775.903 -> he was also shocked for a moment because
778.986 -> he didn't had an idea that I
came for this type of work
781.706 -> so he stood up and he even
told the people who were in front
784.959 -> that you all are here for such pity issues
that this access isn't working, this n that
790.526 -> and this guy has lost his job
792.774 -> means he lost his job
794.45 -> and,see how calmly he is standing
and smiling and all
797.995 -> he prioritized me,immediatley
he got his hand on my shoulder
801.719 -> and he spoke in english that
804.052 -> I know Anshul, how much you are suffering
standing here
806.85 -> means how much broken you are feeling
808.805 -> standing here.
I can feel that
811.368 -> So, what I will do is I will
not make you suffer more
815.607 -> I will complete all the formalities
today itself
818.992 -> you don't have to come again
in this company
822.053 -> you handover the ID card to me and
let me get the experience letter printed
826.373 -> that guy
828.299 -> wherever he is
829.952 -> it feels good, I would like to bless him
give him my best wishes
833.958 -> because, he actually comforted me
835.98 -> the one who was working before him
was very rude
837.742 -> he felt that pain
838.969 -> so I really felt good
840.029 -> so he got his hand on my shoulder,
accompanied me to the exit via lift
844.641 -> when we were about to exit the building
He got his hand on my shoulder and said
850.281 -> don't know why he said that
851.673 -> I don't know
852.373 -> but somewhere he felt
854.011 -> that
854.617 -> he should say this
855.689 -> and perhaps that might be the reason
I am telling this today
857.756 -> because I still remember the words
he said to me that day
860.983 -> he said Anshul
863.043 -> don't be afraid
864.543 -> Nothing has ended up here
866.556 -> it has just started
868.939 -> consider this as just a small failure
872.414 -> and now you will easily grab a job
874.981 -> you will easily get a job
don't get tensed
878.52 -> don't be afraid at all
880.007 -> stay here
You will get a job in Pune itself
882.32 -> at that moment I got emotional
884.686 -> obviously, not infront of him
but internally
887.726 -> so I got that as a support
889.885 -> and
890.765 -> and generally my mother
never calls me randomly at any time
895.778 -> but suddenly I received a call
from my mother
898.205 -> and my mother said that
898.944 -> where are you ?
what is going on?
900.437 -> and for how much time I could have hid
so I told
903.375 -> I didn't cried, I told her normally
that Mummy this has happened
907.34 -> and I lost the job
which I got in that company
909.733 -> now generally
910.719 -> a parent
911.826 -> I am not judging any parents
914.133 -> but
914.492 -> generally parents will get angry
or feel worried that
918.325 -> what has happened ? How all this took place
You didn't even shared it with us
920.71 -> but at that time my mother
922.775 -> told me one thing
924.948 -> means she didn't even react to all this
927.22 -> she spoke like nothing has happened
929.328 -> rather she spoke in such a way
931.061 -> I don't know she spoke it knowingly
or unknowingly
934.96 -> but she said very good
939.007 -> very good
941.014 -> I wanted this to happen
942.614 -> that you don't do a job
943.68 -> now you can persue MBA
945.1 -> don't worry about the money Anshul
947.3 -> you study MBA and you will
clear it
949.967 -> you don't take tension at all
951.239 -> You lost the job
let it be like that
953.361 -> so what ?
954.547 -> and
955.634 -> it was the need of the hour
957.298 -> at that time possibly god made
that call
959.978 -> using my mother's phone
961.698 -> so I got setelled and
964.882 -> I returned home and started
preparing for MBA
967.315 -> and again a Walk-in took place
969.564 -> I got selected in that Walk-in
973.178 -> from there I took my career
more seriously
976.516 -> started studying
and after that
979.103 -> I worked seamlessly in every
company of which I was a part
982.517 -> and now you all can see that
984.223 -> I am happy and now I have been
a part of IT company for over 16-17 years
987.188 -> that was a failure of my initial time
990.684 -> so
992.037 -> yes it has been a bit heavy, sorry guys
993.735 -> but,what this failure
996.703 -> had taught me ?
997.961 -> basically if I see in the retrospection
today
1000.795 -> I feel that I am lucky
1003.643 -> that I got this failure at a
very early stage of life
1006.176 -> because what happens is that
1008.436 -> sometimes, failure defines your character
1011.576 -> defines you
1012.783 -> because at that time
1014.676 -> when you are all alone
1015.988 -> every one will be a part of your success
1018.369 -> but when you experience failure
1020.361 -> at that time no one will be around you
1022.508 -> I am not saying that
1023.955 -> people don't undertsand,
or don't speak with you or
1026.508 -> they don't support you.
But
1027.994 -> obviously the inner struggle is all yours
1031.021 -> no one can help you with that
1032.901 -> so
1033.63 -> the first thing I learned from
this whole episode
1037.383 -> that is
1039.989 -> failures are not bad
1042.387 -> failures arrive due to some reasons and
1045.035 -> if you embrace those failures and
improve yourself
1048.635 -> then, those failures could be
the stepping stones
1052.034 -> for your future success
1054.849 -> so this was the first thing
1055.889 -> The Second Thing
1056.915 -> The work you do, will be returned back to
you either more or less but for sure
1062.46 -> unless you are very lucky
1064.171 -> So, according to me, if I would have
worked hard during the training period
1069.436 -> many of the students who were in the
training who knew everything was staying together
1074.892 -> and I was with the ones who were
already searching for jobs
1077.177 -> obviously, there was no environment for
studies at home
1079.653 -> who knows if I would have changed the
environment of the room,
1082.444 -> that could have helped me to improve
1084.42 -> so this is the second thing I learned, you
will get what you do
1088.523 -> if you will work hard,
you will get the success
1090.454 -> if you will not work hard
you will not get the success
1093.562 -> this is the fact
1094.809 -> Hard Work
1096.269 -> beats talent in the long run
1099.198 -> and, the Harder you work
the luckier you get
1102.218 -> I believe in both these lines
1104.894 -> However, I will not say that
I am the most hardworking guy
1107.714 -> but I have noticed that whenever I have worked
hard for something
1113.007 -> I have got the positive results
1115.313 -> I am not going to say that they were
exceptional, soemtimes they were not, but
1118.046 -> they were okay. Atleast I am
satisfied that I tried
1120.833 -> The Third Thing I learned is that
1123.869 -> Parents are your strength
1128.981 -> means at the time when I needed a support
1132.561 -> the time when my mother called me
her support after all the things happened
1135.413 -> my other used to sent me an amount
of 2600 Rupees ($33)
1137.471 -> 2600 Rupees
1138.778 -> at that time 2600 Rupees
was not considered as a big amount
1141.564 -> in 2600 Rupees it is very difficult
to manage the household
1144.971 -> infact boys have different expense
1146.702 -> but I was
1147.423 -> aware of the situation of my home
and was intelligent in managing funds
1151.576 -> so I was not into all this like
lavish lifestyle, watches,mobile,bikes
1156.809 -> I used to have a simple life
1158.339 -> so that is a thing
1160.679 -> that my mother supported me and I always
thing that your parents support is a must
1164.625 -> if your parents are standing with you
at the time of your failure
1167.239 -> so you should never leave them behid
when you succeed in your life
1170.73 -> you should always thank your parents
for that
1173.63 -> It might be possible, I am saying thanks
to my mother through this video
1179.314 -> I have never explained or expressed
this thing to her
1183.176 -> I am expressing that thing to her
using this video
1186.682 -> So The Fourth Thing which I have learned
is that
1188.649 -> the fear we experience is generally
way too smaller than it appears
1193.349 -> I feel this
1194.447 -> but when we dare to face the fear
in actual life
1197.178 -> then it's overall impact on our
life is very less
1200.985 -> means when I got to know, that I
am not getting it, what will I do now
1205.844 -> but when I went back
to that struggling phase
1208.508 -> I was back to normal
1209.493 -> because I faced that fear and accepted
that okay, I lost the job
1212.608 -> now what
1213.574 -> and perhaps when you face a fear
or a failure
1217.814 -> then you start chilling with your life
1220.478 -> because you know that
1222.427 -> you are not God
1226.007 -> so you will fall
1228.2 -> and
1229.02 -> and you will have to rise up again
1231.113 -> and as much as you face the fear
1233.451 -> I think fear itself starts supporting you
1236.453 -> fear then starts pushing you ahead
1238.882 -> I think this happens
1239.758 -> and Fifth and the last thing
which I learned
1242.965 -> was that
1243.436 -> the life goes on
1246.872 -> means it doesn't stops
1248.063 -> means you got the job, lost the job
anything that is happening
1251.257 -> Life is not something
which happens to you
1255.482 -> It actually happens for you
1257.81 -> this is a quote
1259.417 -> which says that
1261.616 -> whatever the life does
it is for you
1264.4 -> means if you faced a failure
1266.429 -> so it has a bigger purpose involved
1268.372 -> it has a bigger target involved
1270.652 -> it is possible that the place was
not for you, it was not made for you
1275.122 -> the place you have to be needed this
1277.455 -> and the life took you to the place
you should have been at.
1279.689 -> so, at the end
1281.369 -> everything goes on the right track
1283.271 -> this was one of my learnings
1286.378 -> so
1287.298 -> this is my story
1288.936 -> I wanted to share it with you
from a long time
1291.484 -> I want that
1293.95 -> If someone is watching this video
1295.67 -> going through the same phase
and experiencing fear and all
1297.85 -> I just want to say
1299.019 -> I can't say that boss
1301.152 -> everything will be fine, don't get scared
don't do the hard word, NO
1304.27 -> First thing is work hard
1306.28 -> Second thing
1308.067 -> improve yourself and
1310.501 -> trust me if you will start working on
yourself, then God will also help you
1316.495 -> and
1317.541 -> I think that
1319.374 -> you can't achieve anything
if you are scared
1321.141 -> what is planned to happen
will happen
1322.754 -> it is okay
1324.163 -> keep yourself stable
1325.683 -> don't take too much mental pressure
1328.277 -> comparing today's world, we didn't had
social media at that time
1332.609 -> I told you, I stopped
getting out of the house
1334.201 -> how many people would have recognized
me at that time
1336.456 -> how many people would have recognized
1338.076 -> if I was feeling that much shame and guilt
at that time
1341.649 -> so I can understand that
today's generation
1343.441 -> which is present on Instagram and
social media
1346.173 -> how much used to they are to the
external validation
1349.586 -> and how much it impacts them
1351.833 -> so we cannot compare
1352.831 -> both the situations are different
1353.726 -> my story is different and
your story is different
1356.092 -> but I will definitely say that
1358.221 -> everything gets fine
1360.761 -> everything gets fine in the end
1362.173 -> if you are honest,
1363.476 -> if you are hard working,
1364.276 -> if you believe in god
1367.137 -> everything goes fine if you have
your parents blessings with you
1370.171 -> everything goes fine
1371.404 -> but your hard work
1372.544 -> hard work is very important
1373.509 -> not without hard work
1374.997 -> there is nothing without hard work
1376.667 -> so that's all
1377.82 -> I was thinking from quite long
to make this video
1380.52 -> I don't know if people would
judge me on this
1383.057 -> or something like that
1383.922 -> but my heart was calling for this
that
1386.457 -> I should record this
1387.544 -> whereas, I took almost 1 year
to do this
1389.616 -> when I was in UK
1392.26 -> at that time I thought that
I will record this
1394.427 -> and
1395.752 -> after 1 or 1.5 years I am finally
recording this today
1399.035 -> it is not easy
1400.317 -> to show your emotional or weaker side
1402.695 -> but
1404.356 -> but I think I had this inside me
that
1406.69 -> if I can do it
I will do it
1409.623 -> so today God gave me that strength
1412.091 -> and I did this
1414.831 -> So, yeah, this ends my story
1416.368 -> and
1417.264 -> whoever is watching and does not
understand Hindi
1419.782 -> again
1420.717 -> extremely sorry
1421.923 -> it was an emotional kind
of a video
1424.37 -> so
1425.07 -> I had to switch back to my mother tongue
1427.61 -> but
1429.057 -> Obviously, all the technical videos,
everything would continue to come in..
1432.71 -> ..in English
1433.397 -> you would learn as always
1436.498 -> So, at the end of this video
1438.558 -> what we always say
1440.687 -> keep learning
1441.847 -> keep sharing your knowledge
1443.7 -> and yes
1444.713 -> keep hustling
1445.82 -> bye for now
Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lf5-iodl2HE